{"id":969,"date":"2025-10-13T00:54:14","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T00:54:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.iterudio.com\/?p=969"},"modified":"2025-10-13T00:54:14","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T00:54:14","slug":"communication-is-information-exchange","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.iterudio.com\/?p=969","title":{"rendered":"Communication IS \u00a0information exchange"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the benefits (curses?) of working 3rd shift and field service is that you get a lot of time to think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me there is only so many hours of music you can listen to before it starts grating on the ol&#8217; nerves. The audio book industry started with a customer demographic of the blind &#8211; then truck drivers became a profitable market niche and suddenly &#8220;audio books&#8221; were mass market.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, podcasting and the iPod deserve a mention. Apple, Inc did NOT INVENT the technology, maybe &#8220;perfected&#8221; and certainly &#8220;popularized&#8221; &#8211; <br><br>Not to get lost in the weeds &#8211; BUT Steve Jobs didn&#8217;t come down from the mountain with the first generation iPod and say &#8220;now ordinary people may listen to music free from restraint!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m not bashing Apple, Inc or Steve Jobs. Mr Jobs was exceptional &#8211; BUT &#8220;how do we make this product better&#8221; is much different than CREATING something new. The history of &#8220;mobile audio&#8221; starts with &#8220;recorded sound&#8221; in general and then magnetic tape, and then &#8230; different subject<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>What has been will be again,<br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0what has been done will be done again;<br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0there is nothing new under the sun.<\/p><cite>Ecclesiastes 1:9<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Information exchange<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>My pick for the biggest &#8220;leap forward&#8221; in the speed of &#8220;information exchange&#8221; is STILL the movable type printing press. But even there we needed a lot of &#8220;prior art&#8221; for there to be a demand for those Gutenberg Bibles and Shakespeare First Folios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(&#8230; and if you happen to have a genuine &#8220;full and original&#8221; First Folio of Mr Shakespeare&#8217;s work &#8211; you probably get $10 million+ for it at auction &#8230; and we are moving on &#8230;).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The &#8220;revolutionary part&#8221; of movable type printing goes beyond just making printed books less expensive and more available. The &#8220;paper&#8221; industry as we think of it today came into existence because of the printing requirements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With tongue in cheek you can make a dotted line connection between &#8220;paper&#8221; becoming affordable and the Renaissance. Seriously &#8211; we wouldn&#8217;t have all of Leonardo Davinci&#8217;s &#8220;notebooks&#8221; if paper hadn&#8217;t become inexpensive. &#8220;Books&#8221; being available on various scholarly subjects allowed for &#8220;Renaissance men&#8221; to be &#8220;Renaissance men&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course Leonardo regretted his lack of formal education mostly because he couldn&#8217;t read Ancient Greek and Latin. Which brings us to the point that &#8220;communication&#8221; == &#8220;information exchange&#8221; and for &#8220;information&#8221; to be exchanged both sides need to speak the same language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll wave at the Tower of Babel as I acknowledge that &#8220;interpreters&#8221; have been part of the &#8220;communication process&#8221; for a long time &#8230;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Secret communication<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course the folks that need an interpreter are at the mercy of the interpreter&#8217;s skill and good faith.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having a trusted 3rd party intermediate talks might be fine for &#8220;international diplomacy&#8221; &#8211; but not so much in intimate interpersonal &#8220;talks.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being able to guarantee the &#8220;cyber security triad&#8221; of confidentiality, integrity, and availability can become an advanced topic &#8211; but the point is STILL that &#8220;communication == information exchange.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m five hundred word in and haven&#8217;t referenced a movie yet  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0093886\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Roxanne (1987)<\/a> is an updated re-telling of &#8220;Cyrano de Bergerac&#8221; &#8211; the classic 19th Century French play &#8211; and also easily one of Mr Martin&#8217;s most UNDERRATED movies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Jose Ferrer Oscar winning performance <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0042367\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cyrano de Bergerac (1950)<\/a> is a much more &#8220;stage adaptation&#8221; version of the story &#8211; it is available on most of the &#8220;free streaming services&#8221; because it holds up very well as a piece of entertainment, and is also in the public domain.<br><br>Full disclosure &#8211; no the French play doesn&#8217;t have a happy ending, of course Steve Martin&#8217;s version does &#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>oh, and Cyrano&#8217;s problem in the &#8220;19 century tragic romantic play&#8221; is much different than Steve Martin&#8217;s story problem in the 1987 romantic comedy &#8211; if comedians got nominated for &#8220;best actor&#8221; Academy Awards, Steve Martin would have got nominated that year <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Synchronize<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>That classic <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QDS4B0mM-ew\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dial up internet sound <\/a> was the sound modems made while synchronizing\/negotiating communications parameters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically the &#8220;answering modem&#8221; says &#8220;I&#8217;m a modem&#8221; -> then the &#8220;calling modem&#8221; responds &#8220;so am I&#8221; -> and then the high pitched squeal is the two sides &#8220;negotiating&#8221; the speed and standards to use  for the call.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the case of modems the analog telephone connection is probably going to be the limiting factor &#8211; and then if the &#8220;line&#8221; gets disrupted the entire connection process need to start over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>fwiw: I&#8217;m gonna guess that there are still a lot of dial-up connections in 2025 &#8211; just not being marketed to the general consumer. e.g. if security is the primary concern over speed then &#8220;&#8221;dial up&#8221; still has applications <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>SO it is fun to point out that people can be seen &#8220;synchronizing&#8221; with non-verbal communication signals. MY cliche example involves a little &#8220;people watching&#8221; &#8211; e.g. watch people meeting at &#8220;public place&#8221; and how they &#8220;synchronize&#8221; gives you a lot of information on their relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously I&#8217;m not suggesting that anyone violate other folks privacy. A group of young American women meeting always reminds me of that &#8220;modem connection noise&#8221; &#8211; they will talk faster and at a higher pitch if they like other. The young American boys might synchronize by wrestling or by &#8220;King of the Hill&#8221; style grunting &#8211; &#8220;yup&#8221;, &#8220;u huh&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230; still information is exchanged and communication happens<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Did I have a point?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, the problem with ANY attempt at communication is that the &#8220;message sent&#8221; won&#8217;t match the &#8220;message received.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With data processing we have various forms of error checking to make sure &#8220;sent == received.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With people it isn&#8217;t always easy to gauge if &#8220;sent == received.&#8221; At one level that uncertainty is why contract law exists. <br><br>BUT with humans there is always the chance that &#8220;sent == received&#8221; and one side is malicious. i.e Humans can intentionally distort the message for various reasons AND honest &#8216;miscommunication&#8221; can take place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lying is intentionally trying to deceive which is a much different animal than &#8220;mishearing\/misunderstanding.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where that old &#8220;interpersonal trust bank&#8221; becomes important &#8211; i.e. those long term relationships with a HEALTHY trust balance  will naturally get treated differently than the long term relationship with a NEGATIVE balance or a brand new relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Chemistry and &#8220;clicking&#8221;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&#8220;Would you believe in a love at first sight?&#8221;<br>&#8220;Yes, I&#8217;m certain that it happens all the time&#8221;<br><\/p><cite>Sgt Pepper&#8217;s Lonely Hearts Club Band<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The &#8220;With a little help from my friends&#8221; quote came to mind &#8211; it jumps out at me today as a form of Greek chorus engaging with the hero\/protagonist &#8211; great song, but something about nothing new under the song probably applies &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>NO, I don&#8217;t believe in &#8220;love at first sight.&#8217; Of course we have all experienced &#8220;instant attraction&#8221; or just &#8220;clicking&#8221; with someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>THAT instant &#8220;clicking&#8221;  is what I would describe at &#8220;high speed synchronization&#8221; &#8211; i.e. you meet someone and then you care able to talk to them like you have known them for &#8220;longer&#8221; &#8211; THAT is just an example of energy levels and subject matter &#8220;clicking&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, if that &#8220;clicking&#8221; gets reinforced with shared values and experiences THAT might look like a &#8220;love at first sight.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately the opposite is also possible  &#8211; &#8220;NOT clicking&#8221; will feel like instant dislike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The concept of arranged marriages in &#8220;western society&#8221; historically gave the potential couple a veto. Which plays out for humor in &#8220;Fiddler on the Roof&#8221; and &#8220;A Midsummer Nights Dream.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously if a couple is willing to accept an arranged marriage in the first place you would expect the divorce rate to be small &#8211; but that doesn&#8217;t automatically mean the marriages are happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ANYWAY &#8211; the point of &#8220;arranged marriages&#8221; would have been &#8220;strong marriages.&#8221; SO if the idea is that the parents of bride and groom &#8220;know better&#8221; and will pick a compatible couple THAT still requires some level of &#8220;non negative chemistry&#8221;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Gut reactions&#8221; can be overcome &#8211; but most of the time going with your gut isn&#8217;t a bad choice &#8211; i.e. your &#8220;gut&#8221; is probably picking up on something and is just waiting on your brain to figure it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>i.e. &#8220;instantly liking&#8221; someone is probably not as strong a positive indicator as &#8220;instantly DISLIKING&#8221; is a negative indicator &#8211; but I&#8217;m certainly not a matchmaker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>fwiw: one of my &#8220;sitting and thinking&#8221; visual aids &#8220;way back when&#8221; is based loosely on Paul&#8217;s epistles  (Ephesians 5) &#8211; MY thought was a reaction to people saying they wanted someone to &#8220;meet them halfway in a relationship&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem with &#8220;meeting halfway&#8221; is that it can look like a head on collision if both sides approach the marriage\/relationship as a contest of wills. Imagine two fists smashing into each other &#8211; THAT is &#8220;meet me halfway.&#8221;<br><br>Then if one side feels the need to compete\/dominate then you open one hand and smash the fist into the open hand &#8212; in THAT case the &#8220;fist&#8221; might be getting what they want, but probably not the open hand. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With the ideal then being two open hands meeting and intertwining fingers &#8211; i.e. each side is 100% for the OTHER side. Which becomes an applied example of &#8220;loving your neighbor as yourself&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or as that great philosopher once said<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&#8220;You can&#8217;t go too far wrong looking out for the other fella&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the benefits (curses?) of working 3rd shift and field service is that you get a lot of time to think. Trust me there is only so many hours of music you can listen to before it starts grating on the ol&#8217; nerves. 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